Massachusetts Teen Asks Apple to Change Meaning of "Gay"

Categories: LGBT, Tech

Becca Gorman (right) with one of her two moms.
Most English dictionaries bear five definitions of the word "gay," the last of which is deemed disparaging and offensive: "awkward, stupid, bad, lame." As in: "This game is really gay."

According to one Massachusetts teen, that definition is really gay -- except that "gay" isn't part of her argot. Not as a term of derision, at least. Fifteen year-old Becca Gorman can't scrub the definition out of existence, but she hopes to persuade one Silicon Valley tech giant to refrain from using it.

In the dictionary application on its MacBook Pro computer, Apple features three meanings of gay, the third of which is "informal." Deployed as slang, "gay" applies to anything "foolish" or "stupid," according to Apple. Example: "Making students wait for the light is kind of a gay rule."

Anyone familiar with Apple's marketing credos -- particularly the "Think Different" ad campaign of the 1980s, which linked the company to pop culture idols like John Lennon and Mahatma Gandhi -- might be surprised by this rather cavalier insult. Gorman says she was horrified. In a letter addressed to the company's openly gay CEO Tim Cook, she points out that Apple doesn't include a similarly jeering slang definition for the term "retarded," and that other derogatory MacBook definitions came with a trigger warning -- "all of them had 'derogatory in the definition, as expected," she writes.


But Apple seemed content to shoehorn the lame meaning of gay into mainstream parlance, a decision that Gorman, whose two mothers are lesbians, found dispiriting. She appends a screenshot of the definition in her letter to Cook, and cajoles him to remove the third line.

"I assume you are a pro-gay company," Gorman writes, "and would never intend for any of your products to be as offensive as this definition was." She then points out that gay people probably account for a large swath of Apple's marketing demographic, so it might not be a good idea to alienate them.

Apple responded to Gorman within an hour, explaining that it feeds its dictionary from four sources, one of which sullied the gay entry. Marketing executive Brian Miller promised the company would try to cut the offending definition post-haste.

Apple brass have yet to return SF Weekly's requests for comment.

In the meantime, here's a "Think Different" ad from 1997:

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Miss Gorman may be 15 years old, but she does not realize that she cannot dictate the meanings of words, regardless of whether or not the meanings are deemed offensive.

There is going to be a lot of people offended by the definitions regardless of what anyone says.

The word in question has three different meanings, and I don't see any reason why Apple should change their definitions of the word in question.

Joey Sinner
Joey Sinner

Fuck this shit, what is fuckin'wrong with you fucks?


@jesse.duke Jesse if you were not an uneducated asshole, you would know that the word "gay" does not refer to a homosexual but rather to be carefree and happy. Now let me briefly educate you on the history that led to the word gay to also refer to a homosexual.  As you now know "gay" originally meant "carefree' and 'happy". In the 1600's the term was used to describe someone of sexual proclivities. The idea that the word referred to sexuality continued to become increasingly promiscuous and liberal. Not soon after the meaning developed a negative connotation. In your argument you state " the word in question has three different meanings, and i don't see any reason why Apple should change their definition of the word in question," well as i clearly noted before I understand why you can see it, and thats because your ignorant and unintelligent. Nevertheless your lacks concrete evidence. Saying gay as three different meanings is incorrect. It has one real meaning and two derogatory meanings. I encourage you rethink your opposition, no offense but you seem simpleminded.  

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