Trent Arsenault, Prolific Sperm Donor, Is a 36-Year-Old Virgin Pleasing Women Everywhere
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"I'll probably be the 40-year-old virgin, except I'll have 15-plus kids," he told Cooper.
So the only thing Arsenault is making love to is a petri dish.
This bit comes as a surprise not only because Arsenault is 36 years old, but because of his recorded sexual activity -- featuring himself ejaculating in several NSFW online videos, which he claims are not porn, but documenting being a "donorsexual," the term he's coined for someone who expresses their sexuality through sperm donation.
SF Weekly called him to get a few more details on his sex life, or lack thereof. Arsenault said that the videos are how he expresses his sexuality. "So much of my sexuality is suppressed as a donorsexual since I'm not having intercourse, so those videos are how I've coped with my sex drive."
Arsenault says, "I know it sounds strange, but I've decided I'd rather be a servant to others rather than be served."
Not that there haven't been plenty of women knocking down his door for sex. "I've kind of had women chasing me all my life," Arsenault told us. "I decided a long time ago I'm not going to get hitched. I didn't want to reject all the girls who were interested in me.... I wanted to please everybody, so [becoming a donorsexual] was my way of handling that, instead of denying myself to everybody."
In short, there's plenty of Arsenault to go around.
Arsenault says, at this point, he doesn't even want to be in a relationship with a woman, because he assumes any girlfriend would force him to stop being a sperm donor or cut off contact with the families he's already helped.
That's also why he won't donate sperm to single women. "I had a couple problems where single women saw this as a quest to find a father for their child, and I think that doesn't represent what I'm trying to do as a father. I donated to one woman in Marin County and the next day, I got a marriage proposal from her."
So there you have it: You can have his spunk, ladies, but you can't have his heart.
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