Saying Goodbye to the Clickable Clit

By Bonnie Ruberg

The Clickable Clit finishes up this week with a final set of adventures from the personal diary of an SF-based cybersex expert.

Saying 'Goodbye' to the Clickable Clit
Wednesday, December 31st
Filed under: Sadness, professional concerns

Sad news, cybersex enthusiasts. As of this column, The Clickable Clit will be ending. That means I'll no longer be bringing you blog posts about my cybersex exploits -- but you can expect to see a new feature about sex from me starting up sometime soon at SFWeekly.com. In order to say goodbye to the column, why not look back on some of my fondest -- i.e. sexiest -- moments?

- Transcript: sex in the library with Dr. S.
- Transcript: Halloween cybersex with Dr. S.
- Transcript: Open office hours with Dr. S.

Thanks for reading and be sure to check for more sexy coverage from yours truly!

A Sad Day for Cybersex
Tuesday, December 30
Filed under: Beautiful Stranger, Professional Concerns

Starting January 1st, Ning, the company that hosts my cybersex matchmaking site Beautiful Stranger, will be taking down all its "adult" social networks. That doesn't just include my site, but hundreds of others with thousands of users who are getting shunned just for being un-PG 13. Here's the official word from Ning:

As a Network Creator of an adult network on Ning, we have an important announcement regarding your social network.

As of January 1, 2009, we are discontinuing support for adult social networks on the Ning Platform.

We're not discontinuing support for adult networks because we no longer believe in the freedom to create your own social network for anything as long as it's legal. We do. Practically though, supporting adult networks no longer makes sense...

For those of you who created and worked hard on your adult networks, we appreciate your work and dedication and wish there were a different answer.

Since sending this announcement, Ning has been semi-helpful in terms of helping me save the data for the site. Now to figure out what to do with it...

Transcript: Exchanging Sexy Photos with Dr. S.
Sunday, December 28
Filed under: Boy/girl toy follow-ups, Cybersex proper, That was hot, transcripts

The following is an excerpt from a transcript with Dr. S. from a few weeks back, the afternoon we exchanged sexy photos.

Me: hmm, I think my favorite is the boxers shot, since that's always such a great feeling to run your hands along a hard cock that's just waiting
then again, i also like number 3
since i can envision licking a straight line up from the base
Dr. S.: good
Me: very nice indeed
thank you for the visual
now you just make me wish i was there even more
Dr. S.: that can't be a bad thing, though
Me: oh no, not at all
now i just have a much more visceral sense of what i would be like to pleasure you
Dr. S.: i like the sound of that
Me: i can more accurately envision taking your cock into my throat, or what you would look like pushing into me
Dr. S.: oh hell
i don't know which i want to feel more
Me: the way that you're standing in those shots, it would be so easy just to kneel down in front of you and wrap my lips around your cock
though of course, that desk might be a good height for wrapping my legs around you instead while you fuck me
Dr. S.: yes
Me: I can also envision gripping your ass, digging my fingers into your skin involuntarily to put you closer, deeper inside me
Dr. S.: and i can envision leaning over you, raising myself up on my toes and pressing harder against you as i deep thrust into you
my hands gripping your shoulders, loving the feel of your breasts tight against my chest as i grind into you with my cock
Me: mmm, that would be a nice feeling, being pressed tight against you, holding on. still, it could also be nice to lean back, find a place to rest my hands on the desk, and be able to watch a bit while you fuck me.
Dr. S.: yes, i agree, looking down to watch my cock sliding in and out of you over and over
Me: see, now I know exactly what that would look like
Me: what it would look like if you were to pull back, letting the head of your cock slip out slowly, then thrusting hard back in
it's a nice image
Dr. S.: a beautiful image

To reach The Clickable Clit, even after the end of her column, write to bonnie [at] heroine-sheik [dot] com--or read about her old exploits at her cybersex blog, Cybersexy, where you'll also find full versions of all the cybersex transcripts you read here.